A place to find hope, healing, and help

Reconnect Hope

Logo for coaching people with sex addiction or marraige problems. Porn addiction counseling. Betrayal trauma coaching.

Help for you

Healing for your mind

Hope for your life

My background

Certified Sex Addiction Mentor through Bravehearts Mentoring.  

Certified AceOvercomers Trauma-Informed Facilitator
Ordained pastor.

I am experienced in public speaking to present sexual integrity issues and answers.

My husband and I have two adult children, seven grandchildren and have been married for over 47 years.

Spouse Mentor, sex addiction married, wife of sex addict, reconnect Hope

Meet Lila

For years I had seen my relationship with my husband decline into one of sadness, loneliness and fear.  There was something wrong, but I couldn’t figure out what it was.  Then in July of 2004 my husband’s addiction to porn was revealed.  That marked the greatest crisis of our lives but also the turning point into transformation. I could not know what was to come but I knew we needed change and I had to pursue it for myself and our marriage.  Now, I can say that the journey has been worth it and it’s my heart’s greatest joy to help other women move from pain, anger and fear into their true identity.

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If you are reading this, you are probably in a mix of emotions from anger and fear to loneliness and tiredness.  You may feel like a bomb has gone off, and you are collateral damage. You are probably looking for answers to understand what is happening with your husband. You may be in crisis, but more than anything, you want your life to be different.  I can relate to all of this.  All my communication is confidential.  This is a place to begin a healing journey that can bring you into restoration. Each path is unique, but you don’t have to walk it alone.


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Our first talk is free of charge and private.  Let me know the best time to contact you.  We can talk by Video call, over the phone or by email.  


Lila Pisor

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